How to Get Your Boyfriend to Go Down on You

Getting a guy to go down on you sadly isn’t as easy as you might hope. For some reason, guys think it’s totally fine to constantly demand blowjobs, and yet when it comes time for them to go south they balk and resist. It’s no fun if you have a boyfriend that won’t go down on you, and convincing him to finally go south is not always as easy as you might want for it to be. Still, we have a few methods that will help you get your boyfriend to go down on you with minimal complaining. Here’s a hint, though: if these tips don’t work, it may be time to find a new boyfriend that’s more willing to go down on you.

Make It Worth His While

Turn It Into A Sexy Offer Not A Demand

Turn It Into A Sexy Offer Not A Demand

Most guys seem to think that they’re owed blowjobs for nothing in return, which is obviously frustrating. However, if you want a guy to go down on you, you should make sure that he gets something out of it too. Make it as sexy as possible for him so that he feels like he’s getting something out of it, because otherwise he might resist the idea. Put on a sexy striptease or do whatever it takes to convince him that he should be going down on you. Some guys can be pretty blockheaded, so it might take some time, but you’ll be able to wear him down eventually. After all, it’s only fair.

Let Him Know How Much You like It

If your boyfriend isn’t that into the idea of going down on you, he might just need the proper incentive. Make sure to tell him just how much you like it when he goes down on you. If you’re usually quiet and reserved in bed, now is the time to let loose. Dirty talk all the way through the encounter so he knows just how much you like it. This might be just what he needs to be convinced that going down on you regularly is going to be a good thing for him to do. You might be surprised by how much you like talking to him and letting him know how it feels, too.

Make It Mutual

Tell Him You Will Go Down On Him Afterward

Tell Him You Will Go Down On Him Afterward

If he’s really being a big baby about it, then you might just need to offer to reciprocate. You can offer him a blowjob after he’s done with you, or you can 69 if you’re feeling more adventurous. This might really make him more open to the idea, plus it can be an exciting new way to do things. No guy can really pass up a blowjob, though, so no matter how you swing it you’re pretty much guaranteed to get what you want. Hopefully with enough prompting, your boyfriend will become a newfound fan of going down on you, and you will not have to try so hard to convince him next time. There’s always hope, so make sure to do what you have to in order to get what you want from him!